Judgemental Moms
...Not too long ago, I posted on my Facebook about my choice to stop breastfeeding and formula feed my daughter. The jist of it was that I didn't have enough milk, no matter what I tried, so finally at 3 months I decided to exclusively formula feed. I think what may have pissed some people off was that I also mentioned how I plan on bottle feeding (breastmilk or formula or both) with my second baby. A lot of moms I know agreed with me and felt the same way because they formula fed their babies. However, one or two gave me the "breast is best" or "I used to judge moms who formula fed but now it's ok". Ummmm pardon the fuck me?
I seriously don't know how any mom or WHY any mom would judge another mom. Are you fucking kidding me? We're all exhausted, we all gave birth through some way or another, we've all felt that joy of seeing our precious shit heads for the first time, and we all have moments of happiness, joy, disappointment, anger, and sheer I don't give a fuck-ism. So how can you sit there and tell me that you or anyone you know have judged another mom for formula feeding. You know who I judge? The moms who are degenerate crack heads that sell their babies for a hoot off a pipe. Those are the kind of moms I judge. I mean let's be honest, we all judge, but at least make it realistic. If you're going to judge me for feeding my baby in the only way I can, for sleep training, for using a certain type of diaper, for painting my infant's toenails (I can't wait), for losing my patience and raising my voice, for letting her hit her head accidentally, for almost letting her fall off the bed (shit that scared me), for being the only mom that I know how to be and for doing as good of a job as I can, if you judge me or any mom because of any of those reasons or anything else of the sort, you can go fuck yourself.
Women are so terrible to each other already, let's not find more reasons to hate each other.
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